Qudwah

Assalamualaikum. Selamat berhujung minggu. Alhamdulillah, cukup lah 4 hari sudah mencebur diri dlm alam baru. Pekerjaan. Tapi post nih takde lah nak sembang pasal kerja since I feel quite upset to this issue. Nahhh, maybe I am expecting too much. Tapi biasa lah, I guess.

Qudwah. Atau bahasa melayu nya, contoh. When it comes to examples, of course lah it relates to People. Given some situations as examples.

#1 Seseorang yang mana setiap minggu tak pernah miss Usrah, program atau majlis ilmu. Tapi kata kata yg sering keluar dari ulas bibirnya, aib aib orang lain.

#2 Seseorang yang punya tinggi ilmu agama, physically menjaga batasan pergaulan tapi secara maya (sosial media), FAIL. This is really upsetting. Why? Because I ve so many experience or real situations or people nearby me yg macam they seem know nothing about IKHTILAT. Especially Man.

I know I should not judge. But if it is so obvious, I am human though, indeed utk orang yg biasa mesti diorg akan macam, "Ala sekolah agama pun ikhtilat ke laut." "Huffaz pun mencarut" and the dialogues go on. Memang, even huffaz pun manusia and tak maksum. Tapi normal people punya expectations kat awak is different. Amanah weh. Amanah supaya kau tak jadikan agama suci Allah sebagai fitnah.

What I terkilan the most is relate to Ikhtilat. Which I am struggling as well to take care of it. Mmg tak mudah. Tapi itu lah mujahadah kita. Indeed, aku fikir kalau dengan semua orang (yang lain jantina), seseorang itu boleh beramah mesra dengan emoji hati di mulut atau anything yg I don't think it is proper to give, don't u feel u re cheap? Sorry but yes I am judging. Bcos what is left for your future partner? And what makes him/her special than anyone else? Betul lah ibu cakap, too much disclosure or exposure about yourself, there will be less surprises to your partner.

Mainan syaitan tuh waAllahi licik, halus and kotor. Plus, dia tahu kelemahan kita tang mana. So shall we follow him as friend or fight him as enemy? Simpan jawapan sendiri. Yes, everyone has their own battle and please be tough. May Allah grant each of us a strong and sound heart.

Upset,
Me.